Rest Isn’t a Luxury. It’s Leadership

Busy is not a badge of honour. It leads to burnout. Learn about seven types of rest and what you can do to come back from the brink of exhaustion.

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Karas Wright

5/12/20253 min read

person sitting on bench facing suspension bridge
person sitting on bench facing suspension bridge

Let me guess: you’re tired.

And I don’t mean “I could use a nap” tired. I mean mentally fried, emotionally stretched, creatively tapped out, can’t-remember-what-day-it-is type of tired.

Yeah. I’ve been there too.

In 2023, I hit a wall, and it knocked me down for the count for a few months. I was working a full-time internal leadership coach role, building my business, finishing my psychology degree, planning a wedding, and leading a significant event. Oh, and my dad had just been diagnosed with terminal cancer.

I kept showing up, performing, ticking boxes. But inside? I was unravelling.

The wake-up call came from my dad. Even in his final months, he looked at me and said, “You need to see your doctor.”

He was right. My doctor signed me off on medical leave. And for the first time in years, I stopped.

That pause taught me something I’ll never forget: I wasn’t just tired. I was depleted.

What I Learned: There’s More Than One Kind of Tired

Most of us don’t know how to rest. We crash. We scroll. We sit still while guilt eats us alive. Then somehow we manage to pull ourselves together. Still depleted but mobile.

That’s not rest. That’s avoidance.

Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith’s research outlines seven distinct types of rest. When I learned about them, everything fell into place. This wasn’t about laziness or weakness. This was about recovery, reconnection, and clarity.

Let me walk you through them, because I guarantee at least one of these is calling your name.

1. Physical Rest

This includes sleep, naps, downtime, but also active rest like stretching, yoga, or deep breathing. Are you giving your body time to recover, or just pushing it harder every day?

2. Mental Rest

When your brain won’t shut off at night, you're overdue for this one. Mental rest means building in small breaks: silence, reflection, or even just walking away from your screen for 10 minutes.

3. Sensory Rest

Screens, notifications, and constant input drain us. Sensory rest is unplugging. Quiet. Darkness. Stillness. It’s stepping away before you burn out from the buzz. I need silence to recharge. Driving in silence or walking without music. It is therapeutic.

4. Creative Rest

This isn’t just for artists. If you’re problem-solving, leading, or planning, you’re using creative energy. Refill it with beauty, nature, music, or stillness. Inspiration needs space to land.

5. Emotional Rest

Holding space for others while filtering your feelings? That adds up. Emotional rest is the freedom to say, “I’m not okay,” and not have to explain why.

6. Social Rest

This means choosing a connection with people who restore you, not just those who expect something from you. It also means giving yourself permission to retreat from the ones who don’t.

7. Spiritual Rest

For some, this is faith. For others, it’s meaning, purpose, connection to something bigger. When I lost my dad, spiritual rest became my anchor. It reminded me why I’m here and what matters.

Why It Matters

Burnout isn’t just physical.

You can sleep eight hours and still feel empty. You can hit all your goals and still feel disconnected. You can succeed and still feel like something’s missing.

Rest isn’t something you “earn.” It’s something you require to lead, love, and live well.

What You Can Do Today

  1. Name your rest deficit. Which type are you most depleted in?

  2. Make a micro-shift. Start small: ten minutes of silence, one honest conversation, or a weekend offline.

  3. Protect it like your calendar depends on it because it does.

Final Thought

You don’t have to be on the verge of collapse to deserve rest. You don’t need to prove your worth through exhaustion. You don’t have to keep going just because you always have.

You can pause. You can step back. You can choose clarity over chaos.

Because your next step doesn’t need what’s left of you, it requires the best of you.

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